This Keith Olbermann interview with doctor and author Deepak Chopra, one of Michael Jackson’s closest friends and confidants, is required viewing for anyone wanting to get past the knee-jerk “a pedophile is dead” stupidity flooding the net, the air waves, etc., in the wake of the entertainer’s untimely demise Thursday. The interview comes on the heels of a Huffington Post op-ed Chopra penned early Friday morning, worth more than any cheap dime-store speculation from misanthropes and uneducated buffoons.
Thankfully the interview briefly gets into the issue of Jackson’s lupus condition, which obviously speaks to the plastic surgery that eventually became an obsession with health that so many are quick to forget or ignore, choosing instead the line that he was attempting to transform himself into a child or some other such nonsense. There is a Wolf Blitzer interview with Chopra that was even longer, which kick-started his many media appearances this weekend. If you can find that, give it a look, too.
From the Huffington Post piece, it’s worth it to highlight these graphs, I feel:
The closest we ever became, perhaps, was when Michael needed a book to sell primarily as a concert souvenir. It would contain pictures for his fans but there would also be a text consisting of short fables. I sat with him for hours while he dreamily wove Aesop-like tales about animals, mixed with words about music and his love of all things musical. This project became Dancing the Dream after I pulled the text together for him, acting strictly as a friend. It was this time together that convinced me of the modus vivendi Michael had devised for himself: to counter the tidal wave of stress that accompanies mega-stardom, he built a private retreat in a fantasy world where pink clouds veiled inner anguish and Peter Pan was a hero, not a pathology.
This compromise with reality gradually became unsustainable. He went to strange lengths to preserve it. Unbounded privilege became another toxic force in his undoing. What began as idiosyncrasy, shyness, and vulnerability was ravaged by obsessions over health, paranoia over security, and an isolation that grew more and more unhealthy. When Michael passed me the music for that last song, the one sitting by my bedside waiting for the right words, the procedure for getting the CD to me rivaled a CIA covert operation in its secrecy.
They recall, for me, a portion of Andrew Sullivan’s shrewd point in an Atlantic post Thursday:
I grieve for him; but I also grieve for the culture that created and destroyed him. That culture is ours’ and it is a lethal and brutal one: with fame and celebrity as its core values, with money as its sole motive, it chewed this child up and spat him out.
And yet, I hope Chopra’s final thoughts are made manifest in the wake of this tragedy:
…I couldn’t help but write this brief remembrance in sadness. But when the shock subsides and a thousand public voices recount Michael’s brilliant, joyous, embattled, enigmatic, bizarre trajectory, I hope the word “joyous” is the one that will rise from the ashes and shine as he once did.
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3 responses so far
1 6-28-2009 at 3:32 pm
entertainmenttoday.. said...
While I agree with you that “the Pedophile is dead” stuff being posted on the net is vicious Michael Jackson made his own bed with that stigma. Lets just say he wasn’t a pedophile, but here’s a few questions people have and always will-
1. Why did he pay off a 10 yr olds family 22 million to make a child molestation case go away?
What other celebrity would do that?
2. He fully admitted in TV interviews (I believe with Diane Sawyer) that he had young boys in his bed for overnights. I know he claims that this was all innocent and it was not sexual but what man would put him self in this type of position?
3. Was Jackson straight? Was he gay? What was his sexual outlet?
Its hard to believe that anyone with his money and access was celebate for his entire adult life. As long as he’s a man he will have a sex drive. The Peter Pan thing is stuff of make believe not reality.
I hope he is innocent of those accusations but once he paid off one person he became open game for any other parent to accuse him if he had any contact whatsoever with there child.
That needs to be metioned in his defense, but
at he day he created alot of his own misery by putting himself in situations that he shouldn’t have.
This ugly chapter in his life is unfortunetly as much a part of him as his amazing talent.
chuck
2 6-28-2009 at 10:28 pm
Silencio said...
Thanks. Solid perspective from someone that really knew him.
3 6-30-2009 at 8:44 am
Bijaya Jena said...
I absolutely agree with Dr.Chopra.Its very difficult for Americans to percieve a man who does not flaunt his sexual preference.Lisa Marie is the only person who can only confirm if MJ had a normal man woman relationship with her.Its easy for Indians to believe that one can have a man to man friendship or boy to boy friendship hand relive the childhood which one has missed.